You know if the person who wants to join the server cant take the time to register, read the rules, and ask to join......really shouldnt be added. I mean whats the point of the whitelist then? Just noticing this is happening more and more lately. Its great that current members are referring their friends here, but we all had to register and whitelist, I don't see why they cant do the same. The excuse of "they dont want to" is not really a good sign.

Just a thought.
Kia

I don't usually add friend of friends if they ask unless there is a valid reason why they cant sign up on a forum.

This is part of the reason why Cartman made the white list is to get people to recognize the forum and to use it for needs, questions and etc.